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- English, Korean
- My figure type:
- My figure features is strong
Picture this: Your manager is pushing you to do more work than you are being paid for. A project is running delayed. And all the fingers are being pointed at you. Your stress levels are through the roof, and you have to opt out of things that are important to you — outside of work — like socialising, exercising or simply winding down from the day, because if you don't stay back at work — who else will?
You understand the Law of Attraction and as far as you know you are doing it right.
So why is the universe not on your side, or is it? Not everything is as it seems. I wanted to be a full-time blogger as self-development is truly my passion.
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I felt myself guided in that direction. I had enough of my job, so I quit. I got a job as a personal trainer which is something I once enjoyed. In fact, I had my own personal training business years ago. So, I started a new job for this in-home personal training company. The first month I only received 2 clients. I was getting scared because I needed money. I was beginning to get depressed as I sat at home while none of my efforts to get clients seemed to be working.
I felt desperate. So, I dug deep and studied courses, received some one on one coaching and basically spent my time trying to get clients and learning about myself.
I was frustrated as I seen no immediate. Everything was all planned out in my head. But it did not work out like that as nothing usually works out exactly the way we think it will. As time passed, I had no inspiration to write because I was so stressed about getting clients and making rent. How did the universe help me without me realizing it? I asked the universe for some inspiration and ideas to write on my blog a while back when I was having some writers block and then I forgot about it. This experience was the universes way of pushing me to grow and learn what I needed to in order for me to become more of the person I wanted to be.
You see, because I was stressed and worried about money it caused me to seek help. During this tough time I learnt tons of information that could help others. I learnt so much over this time period that I wanted to share it with everyone!
I sat down and wrote 4 articles in one day. You see the universe delivers things to us in the least resistant way possible. Mine must have been to go through this experience in order for me to learn a ton of valuable information that I can share with my readers.
It also confirmed the direction I wanted to go with my career. We often need to go through tough experiences to learn things. So, essentially every tough experience is going to help us in some way. Even though it is uncomfortable at the time, we can usually always look back and be grateful for the experience.
This was a very exciting thing for me to discover! After I received this clarity, I was able to pump out a whole bunch of articles and my writers block disappeared. I am a different person than I was before this experience. I learned many valuable things during this time. Financially I was ok. I ended up manifesting a temporary new job and the money I needed just in time. If you are going through something similar, it might be making you into the person you are supposed to be so that you CAN get what you want.
For example, if you want a certain job you may not be qualified UNTIL you go through a certain experience. But once you go through it you may be exactly what the company is looking for. See if you can uncover how you are getting everything that you asked for.
The universe will deliver it in the way it thinks is best and least resistant to you. Maybe you need to go through a certain experience to be the person that you need to be to get a certain relationship or a specific job. Maybe this seemingly unpleasant experience is preparing you for what you want. When you are in the middle of something it can feel uncomfortable and different than what you want. But if you can look back in hindsight and see that an experience contributed to you getting what you want, it will help you to trust the process.
It is a matter of allowing whatever is happening to happen. I fought the process for a while and after I gave in and allowed it, things started happening and magically manifesting in my life. The universe always provides and does not ignore your wishes.
I have received things anywhere from a week later to years later, but I always get what I want.
If you look to the things you want in your life you will see that you too get everything you want. There are probably things you have received that at one time you thought you would never be able to get. If you want something you have to trust that you WILL get it at some point. Maybe not when you want it, but it will show up in your life.
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