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Casual relationships are pretty commonplace nowadays, but even if you're both trying to keep it simple, there are certain and unsuspecting times where it can actually become just the opposite, Helen Fisher, anthropologist, a senior research fellow at The Kinsey Institute and co-director of Match's annual Singles in America surveytold INSIDER.

According to Match. Whether you call them flings, situationships, or friends with benefits, here are 13 subtle s that it could be turning into something a bit more serious. Casual flings usually have limited communication through text messages unless it involves setting up an encounter. According to a forensic sexologist, chief of sexology, and director of clinical research programs at Felnett Health Research Foundation Damian J.

Sendler, Ph. Therefore, even the quality of messages that you are exchanging with your fling is poor," he said. It's the chance for both of you to get to know each other in a non-obligatory way.

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Plus, things like asking how your day is going is another that you're heading into more serious direction. Casual flings aren't usually the type of situations that require you to spend time with one another outside of having sex. If it's beginning to turn into something more than that, however, you may find yourself looking for more reasons to hang out with your fling. The same applies to relationships. It's an especially strong of affection and romantic interest when the person you're seeing cancels other plans to spend time with you.

This is especially relevant when you just met this individual, who's made some plans in the past, and they want to risk their time and energy to get to know you. Engaging in a casual fling usually finds you and the other party having sex and nothing more.

When it's starting to become more than just a fling though, being touchy-feely during times when you're not having sex could become a normal part of your interaction.

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It's more about going back to the basics of dating," he said. When someone essentially begins to gently explore your physical body without strong sexual innuendo, it means that they want to make a good impression. Planning things with your ificant other is normal for a healthy relationship, so when you're engaged in a casual fling, this can be a something is more serious. Has your casual fling started to become your plus one to every engagement?

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Have you started introducing each other to all of your closest friends? Sendler said that this is a telltale that the fling is ending and a relationship is beginning. But if you are being introduced to someone else's friends because the intention is to make them aware about who you're spending most of your spare time with — that's a that things are heading into a more serious direction. When you're in a relationship, developing pet names for your ificant other can be seen as sweet and cute. In a casual fling, however, that may seem a little unusual and clingy.

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What it could also be though is a subtle that they are ready to turn your fling into something real. If you're calling your fling by a pet name, then that's a subtle that your fling is turning into something more serious," said Margena Carter, d psychotherapist and founder of Carter Care Therapeutic Services.

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As like the above, if your fling has gone from calling you a "friend" to something more, the days of having just a sexual relationship are on its way on the door, according to dating expert and vice president of Dating. Pay attention to what they say and who exactly they are introducing you to. If they say to their friend for example, 'I want you to meet Sarah,' they want to be associated with you and have possibly mentioned you to that person prior to the introduction.

What their friends say may or may not make an impact on what they chose to do next, but when they eagerly introduce you to people in their lives, you can bet that they want things to take a more serious turn.

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If your sexual partner has randomly shifted their compliments to things that are a little more personal, it may be time to consider adding an official title to your situationship. Look out for compliments that show the person is paying attention to your quirks and personality traits. If they are making these kinds of comments, they may want to turn the fling into the real thing.

Having a conversation with a fling about the future will probably exclude you from the plans.

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Once things are starting to become a little more intimate though, Sullivan told INSIDER that you'll notice them including you in their future plans and vice versa. If your casual fling wants to make plans, they probably want and hope that you will stick around. If you are willing to commit to an activity in advance, they will assume you are interested in sticking around as well.

If plans consistently come to fruition, then you know your partner is in it for the long haul. According to Carter, quick and non-personal calls from your casual fling will quickly become a thing of the past if they've decided that they want more from you than just sex.

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As communication increases, a natural pattern of frequency will develop and the conversations will become more personal. Both parties will feel comfortable sharing intimate details of their lives, including their childhood. d professional counselor April Kirkwood told INSIDER that sex with a casual fling can usually cause you to go out of the way to make it an incredible experience. When it's turning into something more, however, you'll be just as comfortable having sex with them as a couple who's been together for years. You now leave your underwear on the floor and they pick them up without a second thought.

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The comfort zone has moved to the bedroom. If you've gotten to the point with them when you're just hanging out rather than having sex, then you may need to consider that things are moving in a different direction.

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Once it's in writing, you may as well say that the ink has dried and it's all over now. You are now an actor in your own romance series.

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Ni'Kesia Pannell. Casual relationships don't always stay casual. If someone begins wanting to hang out outside of your hookups, they could be falling for you. If you've developed pet names, that could be another .

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You've begun exchanging thoughtful text messages with them. Either or both of you have started seeking opportunities to hang more often. You're touching each other when there's no sex involved. You've started to plan greater outings together. Both of you have started to introduce each other to some of your friends and find no problem with doing so.

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You've developed pet names for one another. They've changed the way they introduce you to others. The way they compliment you has changed. You have started to mention a future together. You're talking to them more often. Sex is more comfortable between the two of you.

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